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‘Tude Chooser Menu

April 14, 2020

NLP + ‘TUDE TOOL + BRAIN FACT Just because sometimes it can be helpful to have a memory jogger close at hand… here’s a little menu of ‘Tudes to choose from. Use this if you’re encouraging one of your little peeps to chose a new ‘Tude. We created BUU the ‘Tude dude to help little […]

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NLP + ‘TUDE TOOL + BRAIN FACT

Just because sometimes it can be helpful to have a memory jogger close at hand… here’s a little menu of ‘Tudes to choose from. Use this if you’re encouraging one of your little peeps to chose a new ‘Tude.

We created BUU the ‘Tude dude to help little peeps connect with the concept of each ‘Tude using visual, verbal and feeling cues. This list is some of the ‘Tudes BUU shares. Download our free formatted ‘Tude Chooser Menu.

‘Tude Choosing pointers

In NLP, we refer to the behaviour or attitude as being positive or negative, not the person. A ‘Tude is charged with energy and emotion and is referred to as ‘above the line’ if it is positive, and ‘below the line’ if it is negative. Check out The Pattern Interrupt exercise to see how that is applied in a simple and fun way.

POSITIVE ‘TUDES: (Above the line)

  • Happy
  • Cool
  • Chillaxed
  • Excited
  • Confident
  • Cuddly
  • Helpful
  • Kind
  • Friendly
  • Grati-tude
  • Adventurous
  • Tidy
  • Super

And because ‘Tudes can be negative too… (below the line as we say in NLP)

NEGATIVE ‘TUDES: (Below the line)

  • Impatient BUU
  • Grumble bug BUU
  • Rude BUU
  • Worried BUU
  • Confused BUU
  • Gloomy BUU
  • Frustrated BUU
  • Bossy BUU

Feel free to use this list or make a list of your own. And remember, it’s the energy of the attitude that’s positive or negative, not the little peep. It’s easier to change a ‘Tude than change a person!

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